Dating Puerto Rico mies

AITA for asking my brother to move out?

2020.12.02 12:38 thatdudefromPR AITA for asking my brother to move out?

Alright, so I moved to Florida three years ago after hurricane Maria landed on Puerto Rico, obviously, as a caring and loving son/brother, I brought my parents and younger brother with me (who at the time, like me, was single).
A couple of months pass and I get a job, ans saved enough money to rent a nice house for the family (my brother was supposed to help me pay the bills and my parents too)
Fast forward three years later. My girlfriend moved in with us (been dating me for 2 years already). My brother seemed to envy my relationship, so he went and moved in the first idiot who would date him.
I told him no, my parents adviced him against it (he had not been dating this woman for more than two months).
He promised she would work and help with bills.
Its been almost two years since he moved her in. The longest she has ever worked was three months. Which, she never helped with anything in the house. Kept using his car, even when we told her she was not allowed since she was not in the insurance and refused to pay for it.
My brother can't be trusted to help much, he dived in into a ton of debt (he is a greedy idiot) and he can't keep a job longer than six months. He keeps blaming his coworkers for his troubles at work and with managers. He's just one big asshole and will never accept that he is in the wrong.
My mother is upset, because I got tired and called them parasites and refuse to help him when he falls back on payments.
My family thinks I'm a horrible person for basocally telling him to either go back to Puerto Rico and live with my grandma, or play his luck and live in a trailer with his girlfriend and her family.
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2020.11.28 07:24 Chicbabe78 Hey guys (update on my life)

Well, I still do talk to my ghost sometimes but I’m doing very well now. Getting over an ex is very hard in Puerto Rico because it’s a small island with limited dating options. When the dating choices are not good you tend to text someone familiar to you, like your ex. Haha. Small Island problems. My longest relationship was with a man from the states. Anyways, my ghost is still the same arrogant man. I’m happy now, I have someone that treats me well. My ghost is just bitter soo he keeps texting mean comments. That’s expected.
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2020.11.28 05:01 szechuantrex21 Im meeting with my ex-girlfriend who i haven’t seen in a while

We started dating in December, i was a senior, she one year younger. We met at this Halloween party and instantly couldn’t stop talking. Same music taste, same goofiness.
What i liked the most of us was that, even though we were very different after all, we understood each other. We had this kind of instinct empathy toward each other. I found myself being myself with her, something I hadn’t been able to do in a while.
We broke up during quarantine. Maybe it was the time apart. Maybe it was my fault.
We’ve been texting a lot these days , and i really miss her and want to see her tomorrow. I made my plans and im going, yet only now have actually thought this through.
I don’t know if i want to get back together, why would’ve invited her? Im confused now.
The thing is that, since i moved away to college ( Puerto Rico has a college town in its west coast, she lives in the east coast, 2hours away ) Ive started working at this job, and i met this girl. She is amazing, the type of person who exerts happiness and peace.
I’ve though it through, and it seems like my ex and this new girl, are very alike.
This decision is going to be tough, i truly don’t know how i feel anymore.
Although, Im glad im seeing her tomorrow. Could be the best way to find out.
I now don’t understand why i made this post, maybe to help me think and reflect, actually this is a great forum for inner conversation. Will be used again for sure.
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2020.11.27 04:49 nyx_moonlight_ I had an epiphany today about a dark, awful family legacy on a lonely but peaceful Thanksgiving

I feel I have traced a pattern of sexual abuse, pedophilia, mental illness and substance abuse through my extended family and found the source. Names have been changed.
My Mom once told me that her brother, Mick, witnessed his adult son, Mick jr., having sex with another man in the living room of their shared house. He was probably shocked because his son identifies as straight and is married with kids. The next day, Mick confronted his son, blows and disownment ensued, followed by Mick having a stroke and leaving that part of the country. I thought to myself that Mick was homophobic, Mick Jr. was a cheater, none of it was my business and changed the subject. I didn't give it too much thought after that.
Uncle Mick also had a daughter, Lana. There was a huge scandal when I was about 5, involving Lana, then 14, and my Mom's boyfriend, then 25. My Mom left her boyfriend & Lana to watch me and my cousin, Taylor (will mention him again later). During naptime, Taylor and I laid on the floor of a bedroom while my Mom's boyfriend got in bed with Lana - I only heard whispering and giggling. I didn't know what was happening, but they had sex. Lana did not have to be forced whatsoever from what I witnessed. It never occurred to me that she had already been groomed by someone else.
What my cousin Taylor, was present for that afternoon when we were 5 and 6, was not the end of his childhood sexual trauma. His older brother, Cam, would also endure abuse that left him a broken man when he was a child. When my cousins Cam, Andy, Joe and Jane were little and being babysat by an older cousin Joss, Joss did some disgusting things to Cam and Andy. She sent Jane and Joe into another room but Jane could hear what was happening. In the other room, Joss and a friend molested the boys, including forcing them to eat ice cream off of their genitalia. My cousin Jane spoke up but no one believed her, just like no one believed her when she said Mick Jr. (the one I mentioned in the first paragraph) molested her.
Taylor was 7 or 8 years younger than his brother and in my opinion, I believe he experienced the molestation from Joss when he was barely more than a toddler. It was once witnessed that Taylor's mother came home while Joss was babysitting and dragged her out of their home, beating her and telling her never to come back. Nothing else came of it though. My family is extremely adept at burying these dark and ugly secrets. Later Taylor had a lot of issues, wetting the bed, fights at school, hyperactivity, depression, self-mutilation, starting fires. By the time he started puberty, he was heavily medicated. He is still heavily medicated to this day just to function. I also find it interesting that he married a woman who looks very similar to Joss.
Then there's Cam. Cam began experimenting with girls and drugs at a very young age and ended up becoming a coke addict and alcoholic. He is still an alcoholic to this day. He has shown a preference for dating much younger, barely legal women who look disturbingly childlike. He will not date anyone his own age or who looks remotely womanly, in spite of having many female friends his age. In fact he is willing to endure an enormous amount of mistreatment (cheating, lying, paying out for expensive and unappreciated gifts, even cars) to hold onto these younger women. It makes no sense because he's handsome, charming and many of his female friends carry torches for him and would jump at the chance to be with him.
I recall a statement he made about me as a child once that sends a shiver down my spine now. I was visiting him as a teen and had become a goth at that point and quite overweight. He was saying to his friend next to him that when I was a little girl, I "looked just like a little Mariah Carey" referring to when I was small and thin but with my same cute face and dark features. It strikes me now the tone he used and his strange smile at that moment. Overly wistful. Bordering on amorous. Maybe it was harmless but I also recall my cousin Jane saying that she loved Cam but would never leave her children alone with him. Nothing has ever come out about him molesting anyone but there's just an overall vibe there. If it ever came out that he had slept with an underage girl or downloaded child pornography, I would not be shocked at all, sadly.
This morning it occured to me....Joss and Andy once stayed with Uncle Mick. They were shuffled around because their mother was an addict. In fact, they lived with Mick before living with Taylor and Cam.
All roads lead back to Uncle Mick. Mick Jr. molesting Jane. Lana so enthusiastically having sex with a 25 year old man. Cam and his dysfunctional relationships with barely legal women. Taylor and his long list of issues. Joss living with Mick before she went on to molest Cam and her own brother, Andy. Andy also got involved with a gang, crime and drugs for awhile but later found religion and straightened himself out. Could Mick Jr. and Mick's squabble have been more about jealousy? Was it possible that Mick had molested his own son and when seeing him with another man in their living room grew envious, not disgusted?
Then I thought about my Uncle Mick. What did I know about him? I knew he was the eldest of 6 kids back in the Bronx. I knew he left home as soon as he was of age to join the Navy. I know my grandfather was physically abusive to everyone. I couldn't help but wonder, could my grandfather have been sexually abusive too? Because Mick's younger brother, Jack, is also fucked up. He was once caught in the shower with his girlfriend's teenage daughter. When asked why, he stated that he was "washing her hair". It is truly baffling how even when these people are caught in the act like Joss and Jack, NOTHING comes of it. It just gets buried. So was Jack molested by my grandfather or Mick too?
Honestly, its plausible. As I said my grandfather was abusive. He was also innately selfish. Letting my grandmother work and care for their children while he created to-scale models of boats. They were beautiful in detail but he didn't even sell them. He just contributed nothing but abuse. He came to the US as a little boy from Puerto Rico. His father was a musician who had ran off and left his mother with 6 children. He was the eldest. He had to be the man of the house from a young age, dropping out of junior high to work. He could have easily been sexually abused himself because no one was looking out for him. Then his heart hardened as far too many often do.
Incest, pedophilia and childhood sexual abuse are like these really horrible dark "gifts" that just kept on giving. And NO ONE WILL FUCKING TALK ABOUT IT except Jane and I, who are more like sisters.
I live in the Pacific Northwest. Virtually all of these people are still on the East coast. I had my first child earlier this year. Right now, I'm grateful to be far away and to be the black sheep. I am determined to give my daughter a wonderful childhood free of trauma and abuse. Let's hope it's not too late for the rest of us to heal from these wounds...but how can we heal when there is no justice, because the incidents and the pain are never acknowledged?
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2020.11.21 02:20 ILoveBvrritos 30 [M4F] PUR / Anywhere - Here I go again

Hello! I'm a 5'9, 30 year old guy living the tropical life in Puerto Rico. I'm almost a Clinical Psychologist and I'm a Christian although right now I'm struggling a bit but looking to improve that. I don't have a lot of hobbies but I like to cook, postcrossing, road triping, going out with friends an family, discovering new music and watching TV series and sports like football (soccer) and sometimes baseball and basketball.
I'm here to expose myself to the world and see if I'm lucky enough to find that special someone who'll complete me and I hope to do the same. I have little experience in dating but I'm willing to give everything to be a good partner. I like to try new things and I'm always expectant of what life can bring. I tried doing LDR before and it was a mess but I believe I learned the lesson and will not make the same mistakes.
We can start as friends and/or chatting casually to see how things develop. Just be around my age (31 tops), no smoking or drinking and I have a few pounds on me so I don't expect you to be super fit or athletic but either super fat. Thank you for reading and be safe!
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2020.11.20 13:03 House_of_Suns /r/QOTSA Official Band of the Week 29: PIXIES

When we try to describe a taste, it is usually done by referencing other tastes or smells. Like, this Scotch tastes like a mixture of caramel overlaid with lilac and just a hint of rocket fuel and dirty socks. When we try to describe something we touched, we reference similar feelings. This would be like describing the feeling of touching a down blanket as being as soft as 10-ply. We do much the same thing when we describe a band or a genre of music. “This singer,” we say, “sounds like Debbie Harry and Tom Waits had an illicit affair, and the bastard child of that union was raised in an orphanage run by a strung-out Demi Lovato.”
Not for nothing, but I’m pretty sure that the singer in that description would be Taylor Momsen.
...but I digress.
The founding member of this week’s band once advertised for musicians who liked the music of Hüsker Dü and Peter, Paul, and Mary. In fact, the band is a study in contrasts - in style, in volume, in lyrical subject material, and from album to album. They are a band that never hit it big, but who influenced lots and lots of artists who did.
That's right. As requested, this week's featured artist is Pixies.
About Them
Wait, don’t you mean THE Pixies?
Nope. It’s Pixies. Just Pixies. That’s their name. Just like the name of the nation is Canada, not The Canada. Just one name, like Madonna and Xzibit and Sting and Prince and Eminem and Lorde. Like, if you put the word ‘the’ before any of those artists (The Eminem ?), it dramatically changes the meaning, so they are definitively known just by the one word.
Yeah, I wish it felt less awkward, but it is what it is.
So you know how you sometimes say that the time has come? As in, the time has come for a female, asian, black Vice-President? Well, that time for Pixies was really in the mid-1990s when Grunge and Alternative Rock ruled the airwaves.
That’s why it is such a bummer that they broke up in 1993.
Formed in Boston in 1986, Pixies were an incredibly influential and innovative band who truly paved the way for acts like Nirvana and The Smashing Pumpkins and Weezer and Radiohead. They were an evocative and eclectic mix of rock and folk and punk and laid-back surf sounds, with multiple vocalists and musical genres. Their lyrics ran the gamut from reincarnation to extraterrestrials to pop culture to mutilation. The band was founded by Charles Michael Kittridge Thompson IV. Recognizing that his name sounds like a Disney villain, he changed it to the uplifting and somewhat culturally insensitive Black Francis. Seriously, I’m not certain you could do something like that today.
Black Francis grew up as the son of bar owners in California and was influenced by his parents’ love of Folk music and Christian Rock. He was not exposed to Punk or Rock until his teens, which may explain on some level why the band’s music can veer so wildly from one style to another. After spending some time in Puerto Rico, he met co-founder Joey Santiago at the University of Massachusetts in the early 1980s.
Santiago was born in the Philippines in 1965. His family moved to America to escape Ferdinand Marcos in 1972. Santiago was obsessed with Iggy Pop and The Velvet Underground as a teenager and learned to play guitar. One evening at Uni he heard loud guitar cranking out down the hall and rushed to join in. It was Black Francis. The two bonded and became friends and roommates. They went to concerts - notably, Black Flag - and were inspired. Black Francis was a singer and guitarist and set about turning his life experiences into songs.
By 1986, the duo had a decision to make: drop out of school and go to New Zealand to see Halley’s Comet, or form a band. They chose to found Pixies. They put the aforementioned advertisement out in the paper to get a bass player and met Kim Deal, the band’s female co-singer. Kim Deal and her identical twin sister Kelley Deal grew up listening to Led Zeppelin and AC/DC. Kim became a prolific songwriter as a kid and learned the guitar. Sister Kelley played the bass and drums. Kim borrowed Kelley’s bass for the audition and nailed it.
Pixies offered Kelley Deal the drumming gig but she declined, not feeling like she was ready. Don’t feel too bad for her though - she moved to California to pursue a career in computer programming. No shit, true story. When that didn’t pan out, she picked up the guitar and joined the band The Breeders. So that turned out alright for her.
Pixies hired David Lovering to sit behind the kit because he was at Kim’s wedding reception. Kim’s husband recommended him. Lovering is (if you can believe it) an accomplished magician who has actually performed under the name The Scientific Phenomenalist.
Geez, man, save some ladies for the rest of us.
The dude was working at Radio Shack (fuck, he had all the dating advantages) and graduated with a degree in electronic engineering and had a job to build lasers. He drummed on the side for fun with a few bar bands. Goddam chick magnet. Lovering was also able to secure his parents’ garage as a rehearsal space. Honestly, is everything this man ever did an absolute amazing move of male seduction? Side note: this fucker was such a goddam stud that after Pixies broke up, he TURNED DOWN an opportunity to drum for the Foo Fighters.
Some guys have all the luck.
With the lineup set, the band started to get gigs in small bars in Boston. At one of these, they were discovered by record producer Gary Smith. Smith - who would later work with Billy Bragg and 10,000 Maniacs - knew talent when he saw it, and got the band into the studio to do some recording.
This series of recordings came to be known as The Purple Tape, because of the color of the background. The work was done over a period of three days and produced 17 tracks. SEVENTEEN. That is an enormous outpouring in a 72-hour period. Pixies’ new manager and local promoter Ken Goes took those recordings and shopped them to a number of record labels. One label, 4AD, took an interest and signed the band. Eight of the tracks from the Smith recordings were made into an EP called Come on Pilgrim, their first official release. Two of the tracks on the EP were sung in Spanish and two were about incest. Yep, you read that right.
Pixies followed up their 1987 EP debut by spending ten days in the studio recording their first full length album, Surfer Rosa. Two tracks on the album - Gigantic and Where Is My Mind? - were released as singles in 1988. The mix of hard distorted rock and bizarre lyrics with peaceful pop melodies made it unlike anything else in music at the time. Their fresh sound (and perhaps the racy cover) brought the band legit airplay on college radio in the US.
Over in Europe, though, the album rocketed up the Indie charts. Just like health care and no need for gun ownership, Pixies were much more popular in Europe than in their own country. Pixies toured heavily in support of the album, and found a growing number of fans of their unique sound. Surfer Rosa also had an impact on a number of artists, most notably Kurt Cobain. Cobain would state that the album Nevermind was directly inspired by it. Well, I guess both albums did have nudity on the cover, so there is that. Cobain went so far as to hire the producer of Surfer Rosa, Steve Albini, to work on In Utero.
The album Doolittle was released in 1989 and picked up right where Surfer Rosa left off. This is because Francis was writing songs for the album while the band was touring. Doolittle got the band signed to the major label Elektra. It spawned the singles Debaser, Here Comes Your Man, and Monkey Gone to Heaven. Songs on it covered disparate subjects like gouging out eyes and murdesucide as well as environmentalism and biblical stories. This album is like taking one song off of each King Gizzard album and trying to mash them together. It is like David Lynch doing meth and then magic mushrooms and then coke, one after another.
It was wildly popular in the underground scene and hit #8 on the British charts. Here Comes Your Man even charted in the US. It actually sold decently and was a moderate success overall. But what is really most notable about the album is not so much a single song, as their use of dynamics. Pixies pioneered the sudden swings of loud to quiet in songs, and made it their thing.
Unfortunately, the pressure of recording the album and the constant touring were leading to cracks in the band. Deal and Francis began to bicker and spat almost constantly. This escalated to the point where Francis hurled a guitar at Deal during a concert, and Deal refused to perform. The source of the conflict was songwriting: Francis wanted creative control and so did Deal. The tension grew so high that the band took a break. Francis did a solo tour in that time and Deal went off to found the band The Breeders - the same one sister Kelley would join.
Since Deal found a creative outlet elsewhere, she came to accept that Pixies really had only one singer: Francis. After a hiatus of over a year, the band came back together to record the album Bossanova. With a sound more like Surf Rock and songs about space aliens, it was another departure from the norm. It was also the first Pixies record to not have any songs by Deal.
That just made it more popular in Europe. No kidding, it went to number 3 on the UK Charts. Two singles from the album - Velouria and Dig for Fire - got ample airplay. They once again began to tour, and once again hit the grind of the road.
The band entered the studio one last time in 1991 to record Trompe le Monde. The most notable thing about this record - apart from it being their last studio album - was how little it featured Kim Deal. One reviewer said it was “...essentially Black Francis’ solo debut.” Bossanova had no songs written by her, but still had her as a vocalist. This record pushed her into the harmony role. Trompe le Monde had four singles: Planet of Sound, Alec Eiffel, Letter to Memphis, and Head On (apply directly to the forehead). The record got them great gigs, including opening for U2 on the Zoo TV tour.
Abruptly in 1993, Pixies came to an end. Black Francis simply announced on BBC - without even telling the other members of the band - that they were over. The constant touring, the bickering, the strain of recording and the changing dynamic as Deal was slowly squeezed out of the band had given rise to conflict that overshadowed any growing success they had achieved.
From 1993 to 2003, the band members fell into solo projects (or magic performances) and it seemed like things were pretty bleak for fans. Unless you liked pulling rabbits out of hats, I mean. Then you were golden.
But in 2003, they decided to cash in on that sweet nostalgia give it another go. They got together and released a series of short EPs to justify touring and hit the circuit again. Fans didn’t care. They just wanted to see them play. They did gimmicks like play the album Doolittle track-for-track on the occasion of its 20th anniversary. They had fun, they made cash, and fans got to see them. All was right in the world.
But the tensions slowly rose over time and by 2013, the band announced that Deal was no longer a member. The slow breakup that had begun with Bossanova was finally formalized. She was replaced by Kim Shattuck from Pandoras, who was in turn replaced by Paz Lenchantin of A Perfect Circle. Lenchantin was made a permanent member of the band in 2016.
The lineup with Lenchantin has done more than tour: they no-shit released new music in 2016. The album Head Carrier was no mere collection of EP tracks; it was a legit new record. And they followed this up last year. The album Beneath the Eyrie dropped in September of 2019 and once again moved the band in new directions.
The influence of Pixies cannot be understated. Kurt Cobain loved them. U2 still love them. Radiohead swear by them. The late great David Bowie was a huge Pixies fan and when touring with his side project Tin Machine in 1991, Bowie and the boys covered Debaser. He also covered the song Cactus on his 2002 album Heathen.
Even if you don’t care for them without Kim Deal (when is Nick coming back?), you gotta love that they are still making music.
Links to QOTSA
Pixies’ current bassist Paz Lenchantin was in the band A Perfect Circle with resident QotSA vampire and guitarist Troy Van Leeuwen. Lenchantin is also credited as playing the strings on Mosquito Song.
Josh did a radio show a number of years ago discussing the history of the band.
Dave Grohl thought so much of Dave Lovering’s magic act (these are the Daves I know, I know...these are the Daves I know) that he offered him a chance to drum for the Foo Fighters.
Their Music
Velouria - probably the laziest video ever made
Gigantic - Live in 1988
Gouge Away - live on BBC in 2019
Monkey Gone to Heaven
Wave of Mutilation - UK Surf and Original
Where Is My Mind - Oh look! I have eyes on a locomotive.
Hey - Seriously Lumineers, Pixies did it first and weirder.
Here Comes Your Man - Clearly they didn't have the room for lip syncing in their 50$ video budget.
Show Them Some Love
Yeah, I know I made a big deal about it not being THE Pixies, but it turns out that /pixies was already taken and is a private subreddit...which leads me to believe that this is some kind of short hair fetish club.
Really, your guess is as good as mine.
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2020.11.16 23:01 cadbury0 My Instagram Breakup

For the last three years, I dated a beautiful, compassionate, educated young woman. We travelled to Puerto Rico, China, The Philippines and other beautiful U.S. cities. The breakup was one of the most difficult times in my life. This girl was undoubtedly an Instagram girl. Loved to post pictures and get a plethora of positive comments about how beautiful she is and affirmations of how amazing her life is. When we broke up, Facebook knew. Instagram knew. They immediately bombarded me with a relentless stream of advertisements. E.D. pills. Dating websites. Hair-loss remedies. Clothing outlets. Diet plans. These big tech corporations know exactly what is going on in our personal lives, our greatest insecurities and how to capitalize on them. My advice to anyone still reading; please leave the social media. Detach yourself from what IG and FB want you to be conscious of and beholden to. It will claw at your mental health and insecurities in innocuous ways until you feel unworthy on every level. Break up with Instagram, she isn't worth it.
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2020.11.16 20:23 Downtown_Chocolate67 I think my Girlfriend may be schizo or manic bipolar

I don't know where else to write this....
I have been dating a girl for a year and a month and we met at a bar where she was drinking mocktails. I struck up an interest and asked her out on a date. She was born in Russia, but has been living in the states for quite awhile. She had her own company doing accounting (didn't pay well), but she was doing her own thing and that was admirable. She was living with friends in the city we were at for the next month because she was going to another city soon to do some work for a few months. Her arrangement was that she would live at her managers house for free and get paid.
She immediately moved into my apartment even though I never asked her to. I was annoyed with that at first, but it was fine because she would be leaving in 2 moths to work that assignment in the nearby city. After awhile, i grew fond of her. I kept asking her to pay rent, but she wouldn't. She said she doesn't put money towards something like rent, and would only pay towards a mortgage. It was fine since the rent wasn't that expensive and I am well off enough to easily afford it.
The time came where she would live at her managers and leave me. We made plans to be in contact through out the whole time, and she would come back on weekends to be with me. She quit after a week, and decided to live with me instead although i never told her she can. I let it be.
Things were going fine, she would pay for her own groceries, she never drank or did she even like going out to restaurants. So it wasn't like it wasn't like she was a burden. I could tell she was a little off mentally by the way she would explain how its never better to rent than purchase even when i mention scenarios where it would be better to rent. She would never agree with me.
One night we were going to drive upstate to a cabin and someone stole her license plate from her car. She started blaming her 2 ex boyfriends. She went to the police and pretty much she thought it was one of her ex boyfriends who she put a restraining order on. She then told me how one of her ex boyfriends strangled her before.
We lived with each other, corona happens. Everything is going okay, but my leases is ending and I find out I can work remotely. We decided to live with my friends in a different city, then go to another city where there are beaches so we can be outdoors on the west coast (if we are going to be stuck, i'd rather be stuck somewhere nice). During this time, I am buying tickets for our trip and I am attempting to spell her last name (she has a Russian last name). I attempt to spell it, but it turns out to be the wrong spelling. She accuses me of learning Russian to call her Flat to insult her. According to her I spelled the Russian word for Flat. I had to explain to her over and over that im not an evil genius to learn a new language just to insult her. During this I am also helping her with her work to make it easier since im pretty good with Excel and would knock off a bunch of hours with something she is trying to do. This part is important later.
We get to my friends place and everything is going fine. I am exercising again and come back from the gym. She tells me she needs to talk to me about something important. She starts to accuse me of only helping her in Excel so I can see her financials (how much she makes). I get angry and tell her I dont care how much she makes and I did it to help her. I stormed off to my room.
I tell her that one of my friends used to have a crush on me and she was fine. One night my female friend of mine touched my shirt because she wanted to see what the words said on the tshirt. She storms off away from our group of friends because she thinks the girl is trying to steal me away.
I chalked this up as her having anxiety because she met a bunch of new people who are friends. We decide to go to the town with the beach. I meet up with a friend who just moved from my city to that town. She meets his girlfriend. The girlfriend asks what kind of accent she has. I dont remember exactly but she said some word and no one knew if that was the right way to pronounce it.....Anyway She accuses the girlfriend of making fun of her because she is Russian when no one was being malicious towards her. This causes a scene where we end up not seeing my friend again.
Another friend decides to join us and live with us while in the town with the beach. He is a single guy and looking to date while there. This sparks in her head that since he is single I will be looking to leave her for another girl. I was forbidden from going to the beach or the bar without her (I would only go if she was not able)
Besides this, things were okay. After awhile 2 weeks before the lease would end, though she started accusing our new roommate (my friend) of trying to ruin me by turning into an alcoholic so she would openly start yelling at him. This turned into me not being able to have an alcoholic drink at home while playing card games together. This behavior grew into us verbally fighting and me finally having enough and telling her to leave the apartment since she wasn't on the lease (she would not leave).
We made up the next days, we would cuddle, be sweet to each other, she would make me breakfast; we were being a great couple. The problem is that she is sweet to me, but would be openly angry/aggressive to the roommate now accusing him of being a drug dealer because he is Puerto Rican. She also started blaming him for the demise of me and hers relationship. She would also text me asking who sent him and why he is there.
I would get upset again and we would fight about this all the time. This had to have happened several times in the week. I would tell her to leave, but she wouldn't. I would attempt to make up with her, but she would get angry at me for things like being on my phone while watching a movie (annie hall). She would tell me she is about to smash her phone against the wall. She then asked me not to suffocate her with a pillow if I had the idea of doing that.
I got upset at her for saying that and left the house with the roommate to go to the bar, because I can't handle her at that point. I come back and tell her my intentions to leave her at the end of the lease. I probably wouldn't have because when its just us 2 its fine. I talked to my sisters and they said she is probably upset because she wanted to be on a trip with her boyfriend, but i would go off with my friends instead. I sympathized with that. I then had regrets for ever inviting my friend to be our roommate.
During this time she accuses me and him of being gay because I would go into his room to talk stuff out.
The delusions wouldn't stop though. One night while i was sleeping on the couch. She woke up at 3:30 AM to put a speaker against our roommates door to blast a documentary about the drug trade in puerto rico. At this point i get fed up and start yelling at her. She starts throwing my clothes at my roommate and I threaten to call the police. I even tell her I have (I havent). I go back downstairs and hear her on the phone with a 911 dispatcher on speaker telling them I was suicidal and gay. I tell my roommate to come outside to corroborate my story. She then starts accusing him of attempted sexual advances (Hard R word). I call friends from a nearby city so we can escape to there. The cops don't believe her because I was with them the whole time. So this is an obvious delusion.
The police come. Me and my roommate go to a hotel. She texts me saying I can come back, but that he isn't allowed to. I go in and get his stuff. He decides to drive to the city, I told him I would fly out. I start crying and she starts crying that it all came out to this. I tell her how much I love her, but she has gone too far. We cuddle on the couch. I told her how much I love her. She makes us food. She then buys a ticket to the city I am going to even though i told her not to, but she does have a brother that lives in that city so it isn't too crazy.
Don't get me wrong, during all of this I was being super cruel to her over these episodes. I never empathized with her. I should have kept asking why she feels certain ways instead of telling her we are done, that im going on tinder, etc. etc.
I am lost. I feel like she has schizophrenia where she has these delusions that these things will happen. I am texting her begging and pleading for her to see a doctor or talk to therapy. I told her I would go to therapy too and that I would go see a sleep doctor to cure my sleep apnea (she always told me to go). She doesn't want to go because she will not do the drugs they give her. I replied back that if she is completely fine, then she wouldn't need the drugs. Is there any way i can convince her to talk to someone? I want us to work out if she will get the help she needs.
If I had to do it all over again, I would have stayed in the original town and not exposed her to all of these things she can't handle well. She is fine with just me. There are other things that she has done that were delusional (thinking the new apartment was going to blow up because she can smell gas). I wrote a long list, but didn't want to write forever.
TL;DR Girlfriend is having paranoid delusions that people are out to get her and me. I care about her and want to do what is best for her.
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2020.11.10 20:51 ishapsycqueen Parents don’t know I’m living and traveling with my boyfriend.

I need some straight up advice. I [F20] have been living with my SO [M22] for 3 months and we are planning to live together for a very long time. He moved in with me into my college apartment by taking the only other vacant room. I was terrified because my parents would basically disown me if they knew he lived with me. My dad [M71] especially, would hold the grudge until he dies because he said no boys in the apartment and because he’s grumpy like that. My mom [F62] is a bit less strict but still has very old standard of how I should date. They both live in Puerto Rico, they pay for my rent and my tuition, and I live in GA so I am not worried they would ever come see me. They never want to come to GA, and I always go see them at least twice a year because they prefer it that way, and so do I.
I don’t know if I am ready to tell them he is living with me because it is at the expense of my family and we have a bond we’ve recently created that I have always wanted to have with them (they are very very old fashioned btw). For now, I don’t plan on telling them about that any time soon. But I would love to be open about me traveling with just him to Colorado in February for a week. So far my dad seems okay with me spending Christmas with him but he has yet to know I’ll be going to Chicago to be with his family over there. If he flips out, I might really stand my ground because I don’t see the issue with it. But I am very reluctant to share about Colorado since my aunt said that my mom would not be very happy with that and if she wouldn’t be okay, my dad would be worse. I am not sure what to do anymore and it gives me so much anxiety every day and sleepless nights just thinking about everything I have to hide just to be with a boyfriend that treats me so well and his family that doesn’t treat me like I am a child (his whole family knows he’s living with me and that we travel btw, it’s just mine that is so old-fashioned and scary). I get good grades, everyone in my family wishes I was their kid, I am mature for kids my age, I always look out for my parents, I am everything they always wanted. I am an angel to them and only my half-siblings have done bad things in their eyes. I wish my family was as supportive as my boyfriend’s family is with him dating, living, and traveling with me. My bf has already complained and I feel very embarrassed and frustrated. What would you do?
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2020.11.10 13:30 readingrachelx Housewife highlights/Daily shit talk - November 10th, 2020

"During a game of Us Weekly’s “I Can Explain,” the reality star, 51, broke down some of her most iconic Instagram photos over the years — and explained why she got heat for posing alongside some of the RHOBH ladies after the season 10 reunion.
“That was right after the reunion,” Richards exclusively told Us, referencing a group shot she posted in July with Erika Jayne, Teddi Mellencamp, Dorit Kemsley and Lisa Rinna. “That picture got me in a lot of trouble, because normally after the reunion we all split off into groups.”
The Little House on the Prairie alum explained that “inevitably there’s always someone not talking. So, we split off into groups, some go here, some go there,” which happened after the reunion wrapped.
“So, after it ended — Dorit and I weren’t even talking before the reunion — so I texted some people, and was, like, ‘I fixed things with Dorit,’ whatever, I said, ‘Does anyone want to come over?’” she recalled. “Everyone was like, ‘Please I want to have a drink, a cocktail.’”
Not all of the Bravo stars were invited, however, which ruffled Garcelle Beauvais’ feathers.
“Then Garcelle was, like, well, we weren’t invited,” Richards said, noting “it doesn’t really work like that.”
She added: “I didn’t mean to hurt anyone’s feelings. There’s never been a reunion ever where everyone went out together in the history of reunions.”
The American Woman producer also shared the story behind two of her goofiest photos with some of her fellow Bravo stars — both of which were taken at Andy Cohen’s baby shower in January 2019.
“This was at Andy Cohen’s baby shower when we’re leaving,” Richards said of a photo where she puckered up to kiss Real Housewives of Orange County alum Tamra Judge. “That was a really fun event. That’s never going to be topped.”
During the same bash, Richards got up and danced on a table with Rinna, 57, and Cohen, 52, which she later posted online.
“That is [us] dancing on a tabletop, of course, having the time of our lives,” she told Us. “That was at the baby shower having so much fun. I always think, ‘Gosh, if Andy has another baby we’re not going to be able to top the baby shower.’”
"Sutton Stracke recently took to Instagram to document a fabulous backyard gathering, and while the mouthwatering food and stunning tablescape were certainly noteworthy, the backdrop for the fete is what had eagle-eyed fans talking.
In a November 6 Instagram post, Faces By Bravo posed the question, "Did Sutton steal Kyle's goddamn house?!" after a follower noted that Sutton's outdoor party took place at Kyle Richards' "previous home." Comments By Bravo captured Kyle's cheeky response: "She stole my Goddamn house." Shortly after, Sutton chimed in. Replying to Kyle with three laughing cat emojis, The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills rookie jokingly called herself a "squatter."
After leasing their 6,229 square-foot former house for the last two years, Kyle and Mauricio Umansky re-listed the property in June for $5.95 million. Following a price drop to $5.695 million in August, it appears the home is once again off the market as of October. Although it seems Sutton may be temporarily staying at the abode (she has also posted photos from what appears to be the home's kitchen) she recently purchased a different house in Bel Air for $5.35 million. That house, that “needs updating” per the listing, has a luxe pool, a spacious primary bedroom, and a full-size championship tennis court (see the photos here.)"
"The “Potomac [reunion] is happening pretty soon and I think, at this moment, it looks like it’s going to be in person,” Andy told Danny Pellegrino on Everything Iconic.
“There was a hiccup a couple of days ago where maybe it wasn’t [but] I’m hopeful that it will be in person. I do not aspire to do more Zoom reunions,” he shared.
While the RHOP reunion is up in the air, Andy said that when it comes to season six, he does not believe any changes will be made to the cast.
“No, I don’t [think the RHOP cast will change]. I think that’s one of the reasons why Potomac is so great,” he explained."
"Gizelle Bryant wants a “broke” Bethenny Frankel on her “Real Housewives” dream team.
During Sunday’s installment of “Bravo’s Chat Room,” co-host Kate Chastain of “Below Deck” pressed the “Real Housewives of Potomac” staple about who would be part of her fantasy “Housewives” circle.
“I would choose Erika Jayne [of ‘Beverly Hills’], cause, like, she has a jet and we need to fly around the world in style,” Bryant began.
“Then, I’m going to take broke Bethenny. And the reason why I want her when she was broke — like her Season 1, Season 2 — is because, that’s when she was majorly funny. And she had one-liners, and she was ready and she was hungry, and she was just like all over the place, in a great way,” she continued.
In 2008, Frankel appeared on the debut season of the “Real Housewives of New York,” later departing the show after Season 3 in 2010. In the early episodes, fans watched as Frankel built her Skinnygirl empire, which includes food products and apparel, among other goods. In 2011, she sold Skinnygirl Margarita to Beam Global for $100 million.
Frankel, 50, rejoined “Housewives” for Season 7 in 2015 before departing again in 2019.
Bryant, who has been part of the “Potomac” cast since its 2016 premiere, added she would round out her team with “Chat Room” co-host Porsha Williams, a current cast member of the “Real Housewives of Atlanta.”
As for “Summer House” personality Hannah Berner, she told her “Chat Room” co-stars she’s bringing out “the big guns” for her crew.
“Teresa [Giudice], no one messes with her,” Berner said of the “New Jersey” superstar, adding “Potomac’s” Monique Samuels and “Beverly Hills” alum Brandi Glanville would make up her group.
“Put that together with little me from ‘Summer House,’ and let’s see what happens,” she quipped."
"This is so wrong... hypocrisy at its highest level. I never abandoned my daughter during Covid. She was with her grandmother and father when I was stuck in NYC. Braunwyn on the other hand travelled to Puerto Rico, Aspen, Salt Lake City and elsewhere without her kids who spent and continue to spend considerable time with nannies, not their mom. I have one child (teenager). She has 7 including 4 aged 2-6. There's so much more I can't wait to say at the reunion so stay tuned. Poor Braunwyn will be eaten alive."
"Braunwyn Windham-Burke opened up about her decision to move from the home she lived in during Real Housewives of Orange County season 14 to a rental home for season 15 in a recent video shared to her Instagram Stories. Plus, she also shared an update on her marriage.
As she shared a message about “recovery and detox” on Twitter and explained why she has no regrets about her decision to film her struggles as an alcoholic, the mother of seven said that when it came to relocating her household ahead of season 15, she didn’t have much of a choice. This is because her job with Bravo would have been jeopardized if she chose to remain in her former home.
“It’s not that complicated,” Braunwyn began of the reasons behind her decision to rent.
“I was in my old home and we found out we weren’t allowed to film there anymore because you have to get permits and permission and all this stuff to film at our home and I couldn’t. So, we didn’t have long. We had a few weeks and this house was available and we were like, ‘Okay, we’ll take it,’ because you can’t be on the show if you don’t have a house,” she continued.
According to Braunwyn, she wouldn’t have been able to film RHOC season 15 without a home in the area.
“It’s called the Housewives,” she explained.
Luckily, Braunwyn and her family are happy with the rental they chose.
“It’s a great place. I love it. It works for us now and we’ll see what happens,” she said, adding, “As long as I’m on the show, I probably won’t be able to live where I want to.”
"Larsa Pippen spilled some piping hot tea on her former friendship with the Kardashians, and it burned Kanye West.
Pippen, 46, used to be inseparable with reality TV’s first family, but at some point this year, they had a falling out and unfollowed each other on social media.
While many thought rumors of Pippen hooking up with Khloé Kardashian’s on-again-off-again boyfriend Tristan Thompson were to blame, Pippen claimed it’s actually West who is responsible for the change in feelings.
“I just feel like Kanye was in a place where he really didn’t trust anyone with Kim, so I feel like I was the person that was like, ‘Oh, don’t be so close to her because you’re so close to her’ that kinda had something to do with it,'” Pippen explained on Monday’s episode of the “Hollywood Raw” podcast.
“I don’t want to be the trouble in your relationship. If your husband feels threatened by my relationship with you, then I don’t want to be that person. I got my own s–t.”
Pippen said she wanted West, 43, to feel “really comfortable, really secure” without her in their lives but maintained she did absolutely nothing to betray the famous friendship.
“I didn’t feel any type of way,” she said of losing her best friends. “‘Do what’s best for your family. I love you, you and I are best friends, we’ve been through everything together. I would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship. If you have to unfollow me to make your home a better place, then do it.'”
Pippen admitted that her ex-husband, retired NBA star Scottie Pippen, didn’t approve of her friendship with the famous family either and said he didn’t want their children hanging out with the youngest Kardashian-Jenner members.
Larsa, however, didn’t care what he thought.
“I’m not going to let you dictate what I do,” Larsa recalled telling Scottie.
Larsa also claimed she and the “Jesus Walks” rapper “always had a great relationship” and revealed she became his “go-to person to call when he wasn’t happy with x, y and z.” She eventually blocked his number because she couldn’t handle the phone calls at all hours of the night, which she claims “really upset him.”
“If Kanye feels like Kim and him are better without me, then let them be without me,” she said. “Do I look like I’m suffering? … Was it hurtful? Yes. … This shall pass, too.”
Larsa flat-out denied the rumors that she hooked up with Thompson, who shares daughter True with Khloé, saying, “I would never do that,” but realized she couldn’t beat West’s influence with the family.
“He has literally brainwashed the whole family into thinking that like I don’t even know what,” she said. “I don’t even know.”
She said all of the women “started to ride [Kanye’s] wave.”
“If you’re that easily swayed like the wind, do I really give a f–k?” she asked rhetorically.
Pippen also denied rumors that she tried to hook up with Kylie Jenner’s ex-boyfriend, Travis Scott, and alleged Scott was the one who called Kylie and claimed she was hitting on him.
“That never happened,” Pippen said. “That never freaking happened. Is he delusional? I would never in a billion years do that.”
Reps for the Kardashians and West didn’t immediately return a request for comment."
"Larsa Pippen claims that she had the arguably dubious honor of dating Tristan Thompson before Khloé Kardashian.
The ex-Miami “Housewife,” 46, told the “Hollywood Raw” podcast on Monday that she “was kinda seeing Tristan before Khloé. Before Khloé or any of them knew he existed. I was seeing him, I had him come to L.A., I brought him to a party Kim had. I introduced him to all of them.”
Then a week later, or 10 days later, he started seeing Khloé. Which is fine, I don’t even care. It’s whatever … I never cared that Khloé was with him after me.”
But the former Kardashian pal denies that she’s seen anything of Thompson recently, up to and including a rumored affair between the two.
“I would never do that. That’s not even my personality,” she said, before adding, “I applaud [Khloé and Tristan] for working things out. I think it’s great they are trying to work on their relationship. I’m really proud of them.”
Things have been tense between Pippen and the Kardashians since this summer, when eagle-eyed fans noted that Kim, Kourtney and Khloé had all unfollowed Pippen on Instagram. Kim’s husband, Kanye West, tweeted and deleted “Larsa” at one point, leading Pippen to blame him for “brainwashing” the Kardashians against him.
Pippen explained — also on this week’s “Hollywood Raw” — that she was, at one point, West’s “go-to person to call when he wasn’t happy with x, y and z,” and that she eventually blocked his number because of his late-night calling, which “really upset him.”
“If Kanye feels like Kim and him are better without me, then let them be without me,” she added. “Do I look like I’m suffering? … Was it hurtful? Yes … This shall pass, too.”
Pippen and ex-husband Scottie — famously of the Michael Jordan-era Chicago Bulls — wed in 1997, and they share four children together. In 2018, she officially filed for divorce, two years after the pair initially called it quits.
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2020.11.07 22:29 awildpikachu198 Im Not Sure What to Do

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 4 months now which is the longest relationship I’ve ever had and I love her to death.
But she’s Puerto Rican and sometimes she goes back to Puerto Rico for months on end and everyday it seems harder and harder to find stuff to talk about.
Most times when we call we end up in silence, neither one us saying anything and I just don’t know what to do.
I don’t want us to drift apart. I want to be with her for the rest of my life but long distance relationships are not my specialty.
I need some advice.
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2020.11.07 14:00 Dollian Embryo adoption miracle

Thank you so much for being part of our story as we pursue embryo adoption. This hasn’t been an easy journey, but surely with the support of a community, it will be possible. A common and reasonable question that we love to answer is, why adopt? We are a Christian family therefore pro-life since we were adopted in Christ first, and we want start a family.
Let’s start from the beginning. What is Embryo transfeadoption? When couples go through in vitro fertilization (IVF), sometimes there are fertilized eggs (embryos) that remain and are frozen for later use. When couples decide that their family is complete but still have embryos remaining, there are a few options. They can donate them to a couple who is unable to conceive (like us). Couples can donate the embryos to research. Or they can thaw them and let them die.
This process allows the genetic parents to give their embryos a chance for life. And it will allow us to have children. Embryo adoption will allow my wife to experience pregnancy and the birth of a child. This can be a great opportunity for people like us who haven’t given up hope of ever raising a child.
My wife and I met at college in Puerto Rico and started dating in 2009. We dated for 6 years before getting married in 2015. We decided to wait until we finished our studies, get jobs, and get married the right way. After that, we got a house, and settle before thinking of growing our family.
As we started looking to grow our family we noticed the months passed and nothing happened. After a few testing and medical appointments, I was diagnosed with “Azoospermia” which caused a blockage along the reproductive tract, hormonal problems, and issues with testicular structure or function. So our only option was domestic adoption or a sperm donor
All the sperm count tests turned out negative and the count was zero, literally. We were devastated by the news and with our heart shattered we went through a grieving process. After the months passed we felt ready again to begin the domestic adoption process in Puerto Rico. Starting our process again Puerto Rico was hit by Hurricane Maria in 2017 and our lives were heavily impacted in all areas. We lost our jobs, the island was destroyed. We lived almost 3 months without electricity, minimum communication, or internet access and the basics such as gas, water, and food were very hard to get. We went through unemployment, hopelessness, and desperation to getting new hope a strength
After we started the domestic adoption process with local agencies we were never matched with a child. We never understood why it happened. We were never given an explanation. We thought we were one of the best-qualified candidates out there. We were young professionals, with stable jobs, stable marriage, a stable home, and very little debt. Even with those questions in our minds, we knew that everything was in God’s timing. Tha’s why we decided to start the process again with new hopes and with the support of a community
We are not giving up. We still have hope to hear little voices and those little steps running through are home and giggling and laughing. We still have hope to become parents.
This is our full story and fundraiser campaign:
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2020.11.06 13:39 Dollian Embryo adoption miracle

Thank you so much for being part of our story as we pursue embryo adoption. This hasn’t been an easy journey, but surely with the support of a community, it will be possible. A common and reasonable question that we love to answer is, why adopt? We are a Christian family therefore pro-life since we were adopted in Christ first, and we want start a family.
Let’s start from the beginning. What is Embryo transfeadoption? When couples go through in vitro fertilization (IVF), sometimes there are fertilized eggs (embryos) that remain and are frozen for later use. When couples decide that their family is complete but still have embryos remaining, there are a few options. They can donate them to a couple who is unable to conceive (like us). Couples can donate the embryos to research. Or they can thaw them and let them die.
This process allows the genetic parents to give their embryos a chance for life. And it will allow us to have children. Embryo adoption will allow my wife to experience pregnancy and the birth of a child. This can be a great opportunity for people like us who haven’t given up hope of ever raising a child.
My wife and I met at college in Puerto Rico and started dating in 2009. We dated for 6 years before getting married in 2015. We decided to wait until we finished our studies, get jobs, and get married the right way. After that, we got a house, and settle before thinking of growing our family.
As we started looking to grow our family we noticed the months passed and nothing happened. After a few testing and medical appointments, I was diagnosed with “Azoospermia” which caused a blockage along the reproductive tract, hormonal problems, and issues with testicular structure or function. So our only option was domestic adoption or a sperm donor
All the sperm count tests turned out negative and the count was zero, literally. We were devastated by the news and with our heart shattered we went through a grieving process. After the months passed we felt ready again to begin the domestic adoption process in Puerto Rico. Starting our process again Puerto Rico was hit by Hurricane Maria in 2017 and our lives were heavily impacted in all areas. We lost our jobs, the island was destroyed. We lived almost 3 months without electricity, minimum communication, or internet access and the basics such as gas, water, and food were very hard to get. We went through unemployment, hopelessness, and desperation to getting new hope a strength
After we started the domestic adoption process with local agencies we were never matched with a child. We never understood why it happened. We were never given an explanation. We thought we were one of the best-qualified candidates out there. We were young professionals, with stable jobs, stable marriage, a stable home, and very little debt. Even with those questions in our minds, we knew that everything was in God’s timing. Tha’s why we decided to start the process again with new hopes and with the support of a community
We are not giving up. We still have hope to hear little voices and those little steps running through are home and giggling and laughing. We still have hope to become parents.
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2020.10.29 17:00 nstav13 [Spoilers] Lost and Mythical Cities - Mysterious Setting Discussions

A common trait Assassin’s Creed groups have is the constant theorizing about future settings, because historical tourism is one of the best parts of the series. Over the past few weeks I’ve written about over two dozen potential settings and often would discuss lost and mythical cities such as Ys, Barara, Iram, and Kitezh. Today I want to just focus on some mythical and lost cities that I didn’t give any attention to. Most of these I think would work well as DLC rather than full games.

North America
Cities made of gold were popular mythical cities when the Spanish were colonizing the Americas. The most famous of these is of course El Dorado which was often believed to be in South America. Based on Isu sites I speculated it could be near modern-day Bogota, Lima, Machu Picchu, or the Delta of the Amazon River. Looking North was alleged to be another 7 cities scattered through the southwest US called the 7 Cities of Cibola. These were (obviously) seven native American cities filled with gold and treasure. The Zuni-Cibola Complex of sites around the Sonora Desert is likely what gave rise to these rumors combined with the myth of the gold cities dating back to the 9th century, Spain. In 1540 Francisco Vázquez de Coronado led an expedition throughout the southwest finding the city of Quivira along with other Adobe towns but never found any gold. This might be good side content for a game set in the southwest during the Mexican American War, or it could be a good DLC to a game set in Aztec Mexico. What really interests me is the combination of Aztec Mythology and this Spanish Mythology about the golden cities and islands of gold, and the thing that ties it all together is interestingly Vikings. I go pretty heavy into some theory/ conspiracy territory in THIS thread and would recommend checking it out for some ideas about Norumbega appearing in Assassin’s Creed Valhalla.
The other really famous North American site is the Fountain of Youth. Stories about a place that keeps one young started thousands of years ago, and were even told by Herodotus. The first Governor of Puerto Rico, Juan Ponce de Leon, was allegedly told that the fountain was on the island of Bimini, though within assassin’s creed Lore, this was likely an intentional red herring. Ponce de Leon would become obsessed with the fountain and take several voyages to Florida looking for it. His last voyage was in 1521 when he was attacked and injured by an arrow after landing in Charlotte harbor. Within AC lore, this was purposefully done by native assassins protecting the Isu site due to Ponce de Leon getting too close. He would die from the wounds a few days later in Cuba. Ponce de Leon’s enthusiasm has since caused many people to go searching for the fountain, and I think this would be a wonderful DLC for an Aztec and Mayan based game. Maybe templars are searching in the Yucatan and find a clue to show that it’s not in Bimini but really in Florida, and our character could hunt them to Florida and work with local assassins there.

Northern Africa
I want to preface this by saying that Northern Africa actually wasn’t always a large desert. 15,000 years ago, it was actually in a humid period and covered in grasslands, forests, and lakes. Lake Chad in the Chad basin is currently 521 square miles in area, but just 12,000 years ago covered over 150,000 square miles. Just within the past 40 years, the lake has shrunk 95% of its size from 1972. To the west are other major rivers including the Senegal and Niger which still exist, and have been historically important trade routes. Just to the north, though, was the Tamanrasset, a massive palaeochannel that was filled with water as late as just 5,000 years ago. In the middle of this channel was a volcanic dome that was eroded away leaving several rings making the Eye of the Sahara or the Richat Structure. You’re bound to find tons of things online saying it might be Atlantis, which while a fascinating theory, it probably wasn’t. Atlantis is most likely a myth based on the Minoan Civilization that was destroyed by the eruption of Thera; which was what Odyssey based its Atlantis on (combined with Isu). Despite this, the Richat Structure is almost definitely an Isu site, and was right around the location of the Mali Empire in Mauritania, making it perfect to fit in for a game centered around Mansa Musa, who could even tie back to Midas and his “golden touch”. There is debate around whether or not the structure was ever inhabited, but some claim pottery and shards have been found there. At a minimum, it wouldn’t be unreasonable to find a settlement or camp there made of tents.
The rivers would dry up due to weather changes with the ice age, and between over-farming of goats and weather and climate conditions, the one fertile plains gave way to the desert over several thousand years, creating the Sahara we now have. In the late 15th century, a camel driver crossing the Sahara west of Egypt lost his way during a sandstorm during which his entire party had died. He wandered the desert lost and confused for days before being met by people who spoke a different form of Arabic and carried strange swords. They brought him to a largely white city in the desert named Zerzura and treated him with care and comfort until a mysterious golden ring appeared in his possession that the city guards became extremely angry over. They dragged him into the desert to have his hands chopped off when he escaped and eventually made it to Benghazi in Libya. He told locals the story and when they went to look for the city and oasis, they couldn’t find it. Allegedly, though, this mysterious ring did come back with the camel driver and in the 1970s, al-Gaddafi took the ring for himself. Maybe the city was an isu city or an apple illusion? I’d love to see this mystery tackled in AC though, maybe as a DLC, where the lost city is found by our protagonist, and the inhabitants never let anyone leave who found it. Maybe the city isn’t isu itself, but has a deep connection to the Isu or was an Isu factory of sorts, creating Rings of Eden which had the ability to reflect bullets. Perhaps this special golden ring had even more power than that.

Troy is best known for being the city-state that started the Trojan War and was a real lost city. After its destruction during the Trojan War, it was eventually repopulated by Greeks, but would be abandoned again. Located near Canakkale, Troy’s walls have since been found again, with some potential for even precise sewer and wall placement as described by Homer. While it was a lost city for a while, it doesn’t appear to be home to an Isu Vault. That said, I could see it being made a tomb or something like that in a game in Anatolia, as Perseus may have gained a Sword of Eden there, and Achilles who died at Troy may have held a PoE. I can definitely see Achilles having a shroud which kept him from dying in battle until an arrow in the foot caused him to trip and lose his protection.
A thousand years before the fall of Troy was the Phrygian Empire, with the capital city of Gordion established by Gordias. Some stories say that he adopted a son named Midas, who did a good deed for a Sartyr and was granted a wish by Dionysus. He asked for anything he touched to be turned to gold and famously tried to eat an apple which then turned to Gold. A potential tomb of Midas lies beneath Gordion, and it’d be interesting to find if he was given another type of apple that made people think everything was gold, or if he was given a special piece of Eden that did indeed turn everything he touched to Gold.

Eastern Asia
To the east are some very famous lost cities. The first of which is Shangri-La. Now Shangri-La itself is entirely mythical and comes from a 1933 novel. It is, however, based on the travelogue of French Missionaries from 1850 and ancient Tibetan Manuscripts that describe the existence of seven Nghe-Beyul Khembalung. These are sacred Beyuls or hidden valleys within the Tibetan Mountains. Despite the heavy ties to Buddhism, some ancient Chinese texts from the Qin Dynasty even describe these lands. A realistic take on Shangri-La would be fantastic to see and could easily be a DLC for a game set in China or India due to both bordering Tibet and having owned the mountains at various times.
Looking farther east we find another lost civilization, Yamatai. An ancient Sino-Japanese civilization from around 300bce-300ce, it existed at the height of the Yayoi period as the Yayoi people traveled across the strait of Korea and conquered the islands of Japan from the neolithic Jomon people. Yamatai has never been found, and thus speculation on it varies a ton. Some speculation marks it in modern Kyushu, in Southwest Japan, while other speculation puts it in the Strait of Korea near (or perhaps it was) Tsushima. My thought was that it could be an island among the Ryukyu Island chain. No lore exists on Yamatai, but there is an Isu Site right around the Ryukyu Islands near Taiwan. As a result, an island Yamatai like explored in Tomb Raider could make a solid DLC for feudal Japan or better yet, the Three Kingdoms China. During the three Kingdoms, Himiko came to power as a Shamaness-Queen of Yamatai, unifying the state after decades of warring between rival kings. Himiko has many different appearances tied to her, that of a seductive sorceress, an evil black magic user, a wise old woman, etc. Maybe we could see her as all of the above using a PoE to rule. Alternatively, as many historians think, Himiko may have been the Empress Consort Jingu who ruled as Regent. Both died in the mid 3rd century as well, and a DLC exploring the living Himiko or her Legacy would be fantastic.

Isu times
The Isu Era is the only setting here really deserving of its own game, but with that comes many issues of satisfactory lore after a decade and a half of build-up, and also whether it can satisfy the itch for historical fiction. Humans and Isu were at war with each other only for a few years about 75,000 years ago. From the lore we can tell, Adam and Eve were the first to escape the city of Eden, a garden-like city near Mt. Kilimanjaro in eastern Africa. While Adam and Eve appear to be the first humans to hold the ideals of the Assassins and have high Isu DNA concentration to resist the apples’ power, their son Cain appears to have been one of the first to hold the ideals of what would become the Templars. Other major cities we know about are Feyan and Atlantis. Atlantis’ lore is somewhat messy due to the way that the Odyssey DLC presents itself. It’s unclear how much of the memory was edited for Kassandra, how the city really looked, etc. Based on the memory shown to Desmond in Revelations, it appears most cities were large glassy structures, meaning either Atlantis was some strange exception or the memory was heavily altered. Feyan also appears to have been an important city, being where Juno went after being exiled from Atlantis, meeting with her father, Saturn, there. Juno was part of the Capitoline triad of Isu Scientists, which to me signals that Feyan was likely either the city of Rome or the city in modern-day New York that stood over the Grand Temple. A game exploring these cities and assassinating Isu and dealing with Human drama during the war leading up to the great disaster could be fascinating for sure. Perhaps this would be the best way to make a modern-day game and ending for the series. 50/50 Modern Day and Isu times for an all-out lore explosion.
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2020.10.24 03:43 GraciousLyra I need advice on how to help my long-distance boyfriend

This is my first time posting and apologies for any mess ups with formatting as i am typing this on mobile...
For context: I 22f and my boyfriend 19m, have been together for 3 months (long distance, Me being from the UK and him being from Puerto Rico) but have known eachother for about 8 months. Generally our relationship is great, he helps me where he can with my severe mental health issues (one of my symptoms is dissociating) and I help him where I can like trying to encourage and motivate him to chase his aspiration (being a computer engineer).
My boyfriend lives with his mother and his younger sister (8y), his parents are split up due to what I was told seems like marital problems (and just to add they are not religious at all). Growing up his father was aggressive and strict with him both verbally and physically although I do not know to which extent, his mother was somewhat the same (it seems during high school he dropped out from what I know).
Now that his parents are split, he has a better somewhat improved relationship with them but doesn’t trust them 100%, he mainly lives with his mother but goes to his fathers on some weekends with his little sister.
This is where my concern for him comes in and I’m lost on how to go about it as it affects our relationship.
When his father or mother plan to go somewhere (e.g hotel weekend stay) they inform him last minute being the day before or even on the day itself which can be quite annoying for both of us as it can interrupt our time together, not only that but he seems less enthusiastic to go and states he would rather stay home.
His parents don’t know about us dating and he has good reasons on why he is hesitant to tell them (one being I am older and two being this is a long distance relationship) he has stated that no matter what he cares very little for his parents approval and will still be with me no matter what, he also states he is more closer with his mother than father but his father seems to still be more stricter e.g getting him to go bed at or before midnight while his mother doesn’t police that at all.
He has stated many times throughout our relationship that he cares very little about his parents opinions on his dating and personal life which obviously tells me what has happened during childhood must of been really bad.
There are times when if I ever got upset with him (which has only been twice) he would either cry or go emotionless and start with his self hatred which I help him out by trying to sooth him (to clarify its usually “I’m such a waste of oxygen and I couldn’t do right by you I’m so sorry I fucked up I’m such a useless boyfriend” something along those lines) during those moment I am able to address things in deep engaging conversations.
He is usually very shut down when it comes to deeper emotions and I have to push a little not a lot to get him to open up about what’s going on or why he feels like a failure with himself, but I hate pushing it as I’m scared to cross a line as due to my own mental health issues it’s has been hard to keep stable relationships and this is the most healthiest relationship I have ever been in.
Anyway it’s recently just today come to my attention that again just today he was told that he was going to go to a hotel for weekend with his father, our conversation goes something like this so you understand what I’m faced with:
Me: so what are you doing?
Bf: eating a mango and then I’m getting ready to go to a hotel apparently with my dad this weekend
Me: oh well I guess you aren’t going to bring your laptop with you
Bf: Nope
Me: No calls as well then : (
Bf: Hopefully I can get a chance to call
Me: it’s fine besides spend time with your dad
Bf: I don’t think I will care about that
Me: huh? So why are you going in the first place ?
Bf: the fuck do I know, all I know is that I’m going with him
Me: do you have a hard time saying you don’t wanna go
Bf:I don’t think I’ll have a choice
Me: I don’t understand, why don’t you have a choice?
Bf: I don’t know
Me: that’s concerning, is this enforced by your mother as well or is it just purely your father
Bf: at this point I could easily assume both
And so on and so forth, so reddit I’m lost on what to do and how to help because it’s just a situation where his parents have no respect for him as an adult or his own person, Also his parents are clearly responsible for his lack of encouragement to achieve his goals of what he wanted to do. Anyway please if anyone has any advice to approach this, it would be greatly appreciated
INFO: just to add here incase any of you are wondering, no from what I know he has never and never been expected to babysit his sister.
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2020.10.22 17:45 RedClayPot Thanos Was Right...

I (31M) was dumped during Quarantine after a 10 Year relationship. It was, at the time, the worst thing that had ever happened to me. I was broken, defeated, lonely, and dealing with a complex swirl of emotions that were exacerbated by current events at the time. It was an all-around shit show that left me in shambles.
As I learned to be alone, and with myself, I did the cliche things that one would do to 'heal' during that type of life event: 'Exercise, find anew hobby, travel, reading, hang out with friends, etc.' As time went on, I got my dog, Queen, and learned to live life again. Throughout that time, you pick things up that help your mental space grow and become healthy. One thing that stuck with me, that resonates deeply is the Thanos quote, "THE HARDEST CHOICES REQUIRE THE STRONGEST WILLS".
To those who don't know me personally (which is all of you), I'm a huge advocate of exercising one's own willpower to accomplish anything. I even have a working Green Lantern in my bedroom. [Sidenote: Once I started dating again, I didn't realize how awesome and useful being unapologetically nerdy was. Never be afraid to be yourself. People like that.] After binge-watching the MCU one weekend, I heard that quote and it woke something up with me. Throughout the Quarantine, I was a depressed & suicidal mess of a man. If it weren't for close friends, I wouldn't be here today. I let go of that sense of willpower that got through college with top honors, the music tech industry as an innovator, and so many more accomplishments. So, deciding to live became one of my hardest choices, and it required of me my greatest show of willpower to date.
8 months after the breakup, I'm healthy, I get to start a new career in Gaming, I'm looking to relocate to another state to start building a new life, and accidentally met the perfect woman to share some really dope life experiences with moving forward who may just end up as my wife. [Sidenote: I don't believe in love-at-first-sight. I thought that shit was for children or Twilight fans, not for a pragmatic, cynical Capricorn like me. But this made me a believer. Especially when we both felt it, and its been an awesome experience ever since. The best thing that has ever happened to me. Don't write off that you will find love again. It could happen sooner than you think.] I have zero complaints right now, and for the first time in a long time, I am genuinely full of joy! Now, I look back and see how the events of the breakup and everything around it shaped me into the man I am today; better in every way, confident, dependable, and excited to live life. But, I wouldn't have gotten here if those things didn't happen. I look at it as me 'becoming worthy of my ring' so to speak. But, when you go through something like this, it tests you to your core; the very essence of how you are.
I beg each and every one of you who read this post to not give up on yourself; exercise your willpower to recover and move forward in your life. That person that left you could be doing you the biggest favor by getting out of your life, or you leaving theirs. I am grateful that she dumped me! It was the best gift she ever gave me. And if you apply yourself to being better, or just exercising that will to live and advance, you will be grateful too.
This will be my last post here, and I will likely unsubscribe to this feed soon. I wish all of you the best of luck and remember that Thanos was right.
Now if you will excuse me, I have to plan a trip to Puerto Rico. :)
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2020.09.23 15:31 daprice82 Wrestling Observer Rewind ★ Sept. 16, 2002

Going through old issues of the Wrestling Observer Newsletter and posting highlights in my own words. For anyone interested, I highly recommend signing up for the actual site at f4wonline and checking out the full archives.
1-7-2002 1-14-2002 1-21-2002 1-28-2002
2-4-2002 2-11-2002 2-18-2002 2-25-2002
3-4-2002 3-11-2002 3-18-2002 3-25-2002
4-1-2002 4-8-2002 4-15-2002 4-22-2002
4-29-2002 5-6-2002 5-13-2002 5-20-2002
5-27-2002 6-3-2002 6-10-2002 6-17-2002
6-24-2002 7-1-2002 7-8-2002 7-15-2002
7-22-2002 7-29-2002 8-5-2002 8-12-2002
8-26-2002 9-2-2002 9-9-2002

PROGRAMMING NOTE: Sticking with the morning Wednesday posting schedule for now due to real-life job obligations. We'll see how it continues to go. Just gotta make it through 2002 somehow. And one final note, RIP to Road Warrior Animal. When I was a kid growing up on wrestling in the early 90s, Ultimate Warrior and Animal were my 2 favorites because I loved their face paint designs. I used to buy the paint kits from WWF Magazine so I could paint my face like them. Hawk's design was always simple and boring but Animal, with the spider in the middle of his head and all that, was the coolest to me.

  • Our top story this week is none other than Hot Lesbian Action! Dave says it was one of those moments where you'd want to bury your head in a hole if anyone was in the room watching the show with you. Coming off several bad weeks in a row and ratings bottoming out, plus the beginning of Monday Night Football, WWE decided to bring out the big guns and go back to what made them money in the past: controversy and sleaze. The entire show was built around the promise that viewers would see lesbians getting it on in the ring and everything else, the wrestling, the was all secondary. Jerry Lawler "was the most annoying he's ever been" on this episode. It came off as a crass and desperate ratings grab and make no mistake: the TV stations that carry Raw were embarrassed by it too. TNN put out a statement saying, "TNN takes serious issue with the content of Monday night's WWE Raw episode, and has expressed its deep concern to the WWE. We don't condone the content of this episode, and will work diligently to ensure that similar occurrences do not appear again on our network." In Canada, TSN edited some of the segment out of the show and many stations in Europe did as well. 2 days prior to the show, someone from WWE (Dave thinks it was Bruce Prichard) reached out to UPW and brought in 2 of their valets, Looney Lane and Savvy, to portray the lesbians. Bischoff directed traffic as the two women got down to their underwear and began kissing but then the Island Boyz came out and destroyed them. Jamal in particular nailed Lane with a stiff superkick that legitimately bruised her ribs. Dave thinks this whole angle was pointless. Even if it leads to a one-week ratings boost, the TV networks have made it clear they weren't happy, so it's not like WWE can do it again or go further with it. So...what did it accomplish? (Sorry folks, you'll need to check the Network for video of this. I can only find the Stephanie McMahon HLA segment from Unforgiven, which we'll get to in 2 weeks. This segment seems to have been scrubbed from the internet).
  • This was followed up at the Smackdown tapings with the gay wedding build-up with Billy and Chuck, which got a little mainstream publicity in the days leading up to it. They were everywhere promoting it, but WWE also made it clear ahead of time that neither Billy Gunn or Chuck Palumbo are gay and that the whole thing was a publicity stunt. Howard Stern said WWE fans wouldn't want to see it and ESPN hosts Tony Kornheiser and Michael Wilbon were calling it a desperate ratings grab and saying WWE would be finished after this angle. This angle hasn't aired on TV yet but Dave heard it ran really long and the Undertaker vs. Matt Hardy match afterwards got cut way short as a result. Dave knows Bischoff ended up being revealed as the minister and the Island Boyz came out again and beat everyone up, including Stephanie McMahon but that's all he knows. WWE was extremely concerned about this whole angle coming off as homophobic and confiscated a ton of signs at the doors of the arena, mostly the kind of homophobic stuff you're probably thinking (more on this next week obviously).
  • It's all but official that the recent PRIDE/K-1 event in Tokyo is going to go down as the highest grossing live sports entertainment event (wrestling or MMA) in history. The final number isn't confirmed, but the live gate surpassed the $7 million record that was set back in 1998 for Inoki's retirement match with Don Frye at the Tokyo Dome. The American record, held by Wrestlemania 18, is barely half that ($3.9 million). So yeah, pretty big hit.
  • Four days after being handed a world title, Triple H took on Brock Lesnar at Raw house shows this week in champion vs. champion matches. So much for making something like that feel special. Lesnar worked many Raw house shows this week because he was advertised for them weeks ago, back before WWE made the spur of the moment decision to move him to Smackdown exclusively. Regarding Triple H holding that title, as you can imagine, there's a good deal of talk about that backstage. Even people who aren't usually anti-Triple H are side-eyeing his relationship with Stephanie now and asking questions about just how powerful Triple H is becoming. With Rock and Austin gone for now, it's said that Triple H sees this as his time to be the top star of WWE, but Lesnar's rapid rise has clearly dwarfed Triple H in the last few months. So suddenly, Lesnar gets shipped off to Smackdown and Triple H is handed a world title with his own show to headline. Needless to say, it raised some eyebrows. Anyway, Lesnar is also working Smackdown house shows when it doesn't conflict with a Raw show and in Minnesota, they did the first ever Lesnar vs. Kurt Angle match, which is something that's been discussed as a potential Wrestlemania match down the road. Since it was Minnesota, Lesnar was a huge babyface and the match was said to be really good.
  • Wrestling book review time. First up, Bobby Heenan's autobiography "Bobby The Brain: Wrestling's Bad Boy Tells All" was written with the help of wrestling magazine writer Steve Anderson. There's not a lot of depth to the book, it's mostly a collection of amusing stories from his career. Heenan doesn't leave any shades of gray though, he makes it clear who he liked and disliked. He said his time in WCW was the 6 worst years of his life and only had good things to say about Hogan, Mike Tenay, and Ric Flair. Didn't seem like he cared for many other people in that company. He talked about how poorly run the promotion was and pointed to Goldberg's streak ending and the Fingerpoke of Doom moments as the beginning of the end of WCW. He said on the night of the fingerpoke, he and Tenay both realized the ship was sinking and said Tony Schiavone gave both of them shit for being negative and paranoid. Heenan had good things to say about Verne Gagne, making him one of the few people that does. And of course, he loved Gorilla Monsoon. He tore into Schiavone, WCW producer Craig Leathers, and Leathers' production assistant Annette Yother, who Heenan hated so much, he wouldn't even call her by her name in the book and insulted her throughout. Overall, it's entertaining, and not an embarrassment, but not a must-read or anything either.
  • There's another book on the history of St. Louis wrestling that he reviews, but it's more for historians and full of records and attendance figures and match cards from old St. Louis wrestling shows over the decades dating back to the 1800s. Dave figures this won't appeal to casual fans at all, but for historians or people (like him) who can use this sort of thing as a reference guide, it's invaluable.
  • Just for shits and giggles, when discussing top draws and drawing money, Dave does the all-time list of wrestlers who have headlined the most PPVs that did 1.0 buyrates or higher. Top 5 in case you're curious: Hulk Hogan (22), Steve Austin (20), Ric Flair (17), The Rock (17), and Triple H (9). This doesn't include Summerslam 2002, so if the final buyrate for that ends up breaking the 1.0 mark, then Rock will pass Flair on the list.
  • Zero-1 in Japan is trying to get Akira Maeda to come out of retirement to work matches with Shinya Hashimoto and Naoya Ogawa. They're also trying to get Riki Choshu involved as well. If you don't know the history, Maeda vs. Choshu would be a dream match based on their history. Back in 1987, during a match in NJPW, Maeda double-crossed Choshu for real and kicked him in the face as hard as he could, breaking Choshu's orbital bone. The incident got Maeda fired from NJPW but he used the publicity from it and revived the UWF promotion where he became their top star. Choshu and Maeda never had a match together again, although if they had, it would have done monster business. But it's been 15 years, so Dave isn't sure how big it would be today (this never happens. Maeda retired in 1995 and stayed retired).
  • Dave saw the 2 recent AJPW shows featuring Goldberg. It was fine. Goldberg had the biggest presence and star power on the show and got a great reaction. He looked great physically but didn't do much in the ring worth noting. Quick matches that got over well, but didn't set the world afire or anything.
  • Dream Stage, the parent company of PRIDE, is apparently getting involved in promoting pro wrestling as well, working with AJPW and with hopes to have more Goldberg involvement. The company purchased the rights to merchandise AJPW in the United States, which would one to think the idea is to put together an AJPW show in the U.S. with Goldberg on the card, or at the very least, sell DVDs of AJPW in the U.S. Dave thinks PRIDE has far more potential to catch on in the U.S. than AJPW does, even with Goldberg's involvement. MMA fans respect and accept PRIDE as a legitimate promotion here, but most wrestling fans don't care about anything other than WWE.
  • No real notes from NOAH's latest shows, but just wanted to mention that every time Dave recaps these shows, he comments on how good and how popular KENTA is becoming.
  • NJPW's latest tour kicked off and featured Chyna in tag matches working against men. Not just job guys either. She was in there against names like Jushin Liger and IWGP champion Yuji Nagata. After the first night, Chyna cut a promo challenging Nagata for the title. NJPW is in a tough spot here. The freak-show aspect of having Chyna wrestling men in NJPW is getting a lot of publicity and she's getting paid a lot, so they can't just job her out. But there's also a credibility issue. This isn't the big, muscular Chyna of 1997. It's the IWGP champion selling for a Playboy model. As you can imagine, all of the NJPW wrestlers hate working with her but, as Yuji Nagata once said, "Inoki bullshit, but you gotta go with it."
  • Speaking of Inoki bullshit, there's more. First of all, he talked about starting a promotion in the U.S. with Chyna as the top star and also said he's working to bring X-Pac and DDP to Japan. Dave thinks X-Pac in NJPW might not be a bad idea. But DDP is 1. retired due to injury and 2. still under WWE contract. Inoki also publicly invited several non-NJPW wrestlers to come participate in their upcoming Tokyo Dome show. In particular, he named Keiji Muto and Shinya Hashimoto. But both of them publicly turned him down, both saying they have no interest in doing anything with NJPW. Dave thinks it's a bad look when you try to do business in front of the public only to get embarrassingly turned down in public.
  • Other NJPW notes: American Dragon is debuting for the company in October. Hart family friend T.J. Wilson will be coming to NJPW later in the year, under the name Stampede Kid, doing a cowboy gimmick. Dave explains how Wilson is basically an honorary member of the Hart family and is incredibly talented.
  • With little advance notice, Ultimo Dragon made his in-ring return in his own Toryumon promotion, his first match since a botched surgery in WCW ended his career in 1998. They teased his arm being in bad shape and he sold it big when his opponent attacked it.
  • Dave had a long talk with Bret Hart this week, which is one of the few times in this newsletter I've ever seen Dave just outright say, "I talked to this person, here's what he told me." He says Hart is very positive on his outlook for recovery and is seeing major improvements over the last few weeks. He thinks within a month, you won't be able to tell by looking at him that he had a stroke. He's able to control his facial muscles better now and aside from weakness on his left side, he's starting to feel halfway normal again. He talked about the show in Montreal for Rougeau and said he did it as a favor because he had promised beforehand, but felt he wasn't ready and broke down crying in front of the crowd. He also said he doesn't think there's any connection between his stroke and the career-ending concussion he suffered from Goldberg in 1999. The issues were in different parts of the brain and doctors think they're unrelated.
  • Oprah Winfrey's show this week talked about the effect of professional wrestling on children and she and her guest (some guy who wrote a book about parents using TV as a babysitter) both agreed that wrestling teaches kids that violence is acceptable to resolve conflicts and that it degrades women.
  • Notes from Raw: William Regal joined the UnAmericans. Terri Runnels & Trish Stratus vs. Victoria & Stacy Keibler was so bad that Dave was praying for a Jackie Gayda run-in by the end. Dave thinks Victoria can be a big star, but they've done nothing to make her feel like anything special. Triple H has lost some weight and muscle mass and was moving better, but he also beat Spike Dudley with a sleeper hold, a move that hasn't been over in decades, and put the crowd to sleep faster than Spike.That being said, Dave thinks guys should have more than one finisher and it takes time to establish a move and get it over, so if this is the start of that, he's fine with it. And pretty much everything else was lesbians, lesbians, lesbians!
  • Steve Austin dropped divorce proceedings against Debra last week. Apparently they've decided to try to work it out (this clearly changes again soon. Their divorce ends up being finalized in February).
  • Random WWE notes: OVW held a big show with a bunch of now-WWE stars such as Lesnar, Orton, Cena, Rico, Victoria, and others all appearing, as well as Benoit. The OVW stars beat the WWE stars in most of the matches. Lesnar suffered a minor injury at the house show the night before, so WWE wouldn't let him wrestle, which is why they sent Benoit as a make-good. Tommy Dreamer's wedding next month is to former ECW valet Beulah McGuillicutty. Test got surgery to remove the gynaecomastia from his chest, same surgery the Rock and others have had. Speaking of surgery, Jerry Lawler had cosmetic surgery on his face as well, with work on his jawline and around his eyes. That's why he was wearing sunglasses on Raw or using binoculars when they cut to him during the HLA segment and why his face looked swollen. Dave says this isn't the first time, and as far back as 15 years ago, Lawler got surgery to get rid of the beginnings of a double-chin. Lilian Garcia signed a recording contract with Universal Records, with a single releasing next month.
  • Chris Jericho was on Bubba The Love Sponge's radio show, out of character. He said he's not interested in winning the WWE title anymore because he already accomplished all his wrestling goals, now he just wants to entertain fans and help get new stars over. He talked about how losing to Cena recently was his idea and he had to talk them into it. Hulk Hogan called in and put over how great Jericho is.
  • Nathan Jones won an appeal in the courts last week to get a work visa so he can come work in the U.S. He's been able to travel everywhere except the U.S., but an arrest from several years ago prevented him from getting a visa to work here, which is why WWE dropped his developmental contract. With that taken care of, Dave figures we'll probably see him in WWE soon.
  • Filming for Rock's next movie "Helldorado" was delayed due to the presence of an endangered species of bird called a Bell's Vireo bird. Until the bird leaves the area, they weren't allowed to film. That's hilarious.
NEXT WEDNESDAY: controversial fallout from both the HLA and Billy & Chuck angles, WWC in Puerto Rico has a disastrous weekend, details on death of a wrestler training with Dalip Singh, and more...
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2020.09.18 04:16 muffingirl532 I(20F) have been dating my boyfriend(19M) for 3 years, having reoccurring negative feelings from the past.

On mobile, sorry.
So for starters I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and about half a year now. In the beginning I could already tell that he would be my best friend and that soon turned us into a couple. I am black and he is Puerto Rican, my parents warned me about how that could be an issue but I didn't want to think about that because our relationship shouldn't have to focus on color. From the start his mom was quite..mean I guess. Once she found out she began to give my boyfriend's number to other girls. That summer they were going to Puerto Rico and she would joke around that he'd find a real girlfriend there. Her and the dad would call me the n word and harsher things that my boyfriend has yet to tell me. I started to break when I would go over his house and they'd leave around the time I was supposed to come over. They left me outside in 10 degree weather or lower multiple times.
Why did I keep going? I was stubborn and by that time I was like family to my boyfriend's siblings and I didn't want to just leave them. One day I told my mom all of the things I had been through, screaming, tears, and just pain. Excruciating pain. And I broke, my depression had gotten so bad that my mom was going to force me to break up with my boyfriend. I started calling myself worthless, saying that it would be easier if I was Hispanic, or if I just wasn't around.
My boyfriend has comforted and stood up for me throughout but he can never fully understand my pain. Over time everything died down and now I'm so happy. We're the strongest that we've ever been. But sometimes everything gets a bit too quiet and my anxiety hits and I can't breathe. My anxiety had gotten so bad before that I couldn't even hear his mother's voice without shaking. Now I get hit with this big sense of sadness and something else that I can't shake. I don't know what to do. Sometimes my mind wanders to the "what ifs". What if I had just walked away? Saved myself that pain and misery. What if I had dated someone who had a family that loved me for me?
I don't take this out on my boyfriend though, it's not his fault that some of his family is like this. I've tried my hardest through the years to not take out my pain on him, he would cry with me and apologize for their actions and it would just break my heart. I need advice. Help, something because it feels like a pit is forming inside of me. I love my boyfriend so much, I don't want to leave him or damage my relationship because of the past. Please help.
tl;dr: boyfriend's family has deeply hurt me and I can't shake off their past actions.
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2020.09.17 09:46 mcemsayin Love between 9090 kms /5648.3 miles

Okay, real talk. Me [M24] and her [F19] dating for 10 months now and knowing eachother over a year. I have never felt this much completed, peaceful, happy, protective (like making sure that she's healthy and safe) and loved in my entire life. Yes, the age age gap was intimidating for us at the beginning but after some time and some hour on call talking about everything, it has been solved. Even the distance, 7 hour time difference, culture difference could stop us. We knew that because of my job, we are already going have some kind of long distance relationship. So why not at the beginning already? She's the best thing happened to me. Even if she's from Puerto Rico, and I'm from Turkey.
I'm calling every couples who are scared to loose their significant one because of the distance. It's tough, yes. But it's a challenge for both of you to be patient. Long distance is just a psychological challenge. Makes special every second together. Like a broken bone healing stronger, it binds you stronger together. Never give up. If he/she wants to be yours, long distance or time difference doesn't matter at all. Just listen more, share more, care more. Schedule your things in your life to be with him/her more. It totally worth it ♥️
I'm calling out my sailor colleagues. Our job is not easy for our relationships. But remember that he/she is our home, our anchor in life and knowing that they are safe and sound when we are working at sea is the most relaxing feeling. We know that when all this over, they will be waiting for us with a wide smile in their faces, warm hugs and kisses, maybe with happy tears. It's always exciting amd it worth to be with them. Because they are the protector of our sanity, protector of our mind and heart. You are working, struggling and missing them but remember, they are too.
In today's world, love is world-wide. It's time to step outside from narrow-minded crowd and learn that love doesn't care about distance. Be not afraid, take the leap and love harder. Don't believe Ted Mosby, long distance relationships actually works ♥️
Thank you for reading my post and my feelings. It was nice to share 🥰
PS: Sorry about my bad English, typing all these when I'm sleepy and English is not my main language 😅
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2020.09.15 00:55 lueyforthethrone Our story and how you just left me during a fucking pandemic

We met in the dorms when I was 19, you were 18 and started dating when I was 20 and you were 19. I didnt think much of it because I was awkward and shy and you were my first boyfriend. We started dating in July 2011, and by October I think was when we first said we loved each other, that fast. In September you supported me when my aunt passed away from cancer. You only dated me for 2 mos at that point and you didnt bail or ditch me, instead you supported me through a very tough loss for me. You were so kind and comforting to me. We kept dating and dorming throughout the years and then you graduated first, got your first job out of college and your first apartment.
You supported me through the stress of college and me doing engineering and studying all the time. It took forever for me to graduate. Then in January of 2014, my mom was diagnosed with lung cancer. You kept supporting me through her diagnosis, all the way until her passing in October 2014. You came to the viewing even though on the way, you literally had food poisoning and vomited/shat yourself and arrived like that to the viewing all embarassed because you loved me and wanted to be there to support me for one of the worst days of my life. You were such a champ even then, when we were 22 and 23. You supported me throughout my whole grieving process with my mom. I was such a mess to be around. I was so self destructive, drank a lot and cried all the time. You gave me the tough love I needed at times but also gave me a shoulder to cry on, and held me while I cried. It was YOU who encouraged me to start therapy. I started therapy and you set me up with the tools to get through the loss of you now. In 2017, I finally graduated and got my first job so we finally moved in together after 6 years of dating, that September. We finally got the dog we were talking about and we already had a cat. We were one pack, the 4 of us. We had a great life living in Brooklyn. We were both young, childless people who were young professionals in a hustle kind of city. We frequented the museums in NYC especially the Brooklyn Museum, Prospect park (our favorite spot), restaurants, concerts, and went on so many family walks with our dog through Brooklyn. We went on vacations, one where you wanted to propose even. We had the life! Not to say we never fought, of course we did but rarely.
In 2018, when we were in bed early morning on the weekend, you got a call from your mom that your cousin was found dead. You were secretly so devastated because you never told me how close you were (your mom told me after you passed) and you never told me your grief of it because you never liked talking about your feelings. Later that year your mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and then your dad checked himself into a psych ward. You were so afraid for your parents but you kept it all in. In the meantime, work was so stressful and demanding and you had all these fears, stresses and sadness eating you up inside. Then in May 2019, I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer and now you had your girlfriend and mom both having cancer and being so scared. You were so calm and strong for me that you kept all this together to make sure I lived last year. The stress of the fucking bureaucracy with the hospital for my treatment was so stressful to you, you yourself got ulcers and colitis. So the stress was physically hurting you. All this time, I was heavily suggesting therapy for you as well. I knew you would benefit like I would because I knew it was a lot to carry. But you saw it as me being inconvenienced and pushing you aside and also saying that talking about your feelings doesnt matter and wont fix anything.
Your mom and I made it through last year and survived cancer. The end of 2019 into New years 2020, we were in Puerto Rico to see your family and we hiked El Yunque 1/1/20. I remember thinking to myself, this year would be way better than last and we'll be ok. Shortly after our trip, you unloaded all your frustrations with me and everything you pent up since last year since I was sick. It was hurtful and I left to stay with a friend but then we spoke and somewhat resolved things. Maybe I shouldnt have left but I was really hurt. We kept living our life as normal, activities on the weekend, walks with our dog, hanging out at home watching netflic, etc. Then quarantine hit and we were both working from home. You worked on the Corona virus pandemic episode for a month straight for your show. The last episode you worked on was the one on Dominic fike and they did a tribute at the end of the episode to you because thats how much you were loved.Your coworkers were so devastated and impacted. Since our January fight, we have been discussing more things we needed to discuss after almost 9 years of dating and talking about an engagement. Our communication was always a problem but I felt like we were making progress this year. We were hashing out our feelings and I thought, working towards the next step which was engagement hopefully next year since this year is terrible. You always told me your New Years dreams came true. Whether the year would be good or bad. You told me "this year would be bad for humanity but good for us", meaning we would be ok. Another time you also told me in bed, how you feel in your heart that you were meant to find me and we were meant to be together. I really fucking believed you when you made those 2 statements. In around April/May of this year, I found out something that I was rightfully allowed to be angry and sad about. We talked and fought about it and you apologized but felt so guilty and you should be. Instead of talking to me becuse you felt like you couldnt (partly my fault), you felt alone and made some bad choices and I was rightfully hurt. Then you started opening up about some personal problems you had. You see, even though we were fighting, you were finally speaking to me and letting me see the real you. Thats all I ever wanted. I loved our ideas about the world, institutions, history, art, music, etc. but you never really let me into your past, your feelings and problems. I recognized the signs that you were depressed because I myself am but I had been in therapy for 4 years at this point thanks to you! So I was really trying to push you to go because I knew you needed help. I literally called 2 psychiatrists the week before for you but it didnt fit with your schedule.
We fought here and there about this particular problem but did you really think I had to not be hurt about it this fast? I even wanted to go to couple's therapy. But overall, I felt genuine hope. July 4th, we got your sisters car and us and our dog drove to Coney Island, Red Hook and Bay ridge. We didnt go to Hometown BBQ even though its your favorite restaurant because they ran out of my item, brisket and you wanted me to enjoy it as well. You were that thoughful. I dont remember much about the week between 7/4-7/11. I cant even remember the last happy memory we had together. 7/11 was a day of all day fighting, that I started over that topic, and I cannot type out the events of that day because I still cant discuss it during therapy.

But sometime in the evening after we fought, I went to the kitchen to play with our dog and when I turned from the kitchen, I saw the dog leash across our bedroom door. I opened up and saw you hung from the doorknob. Mind you I was also drunk. I dont remember how long I stood there screaming and crying until I ran for help from our neighbors. They came in and cut you down and called 911. Had I walked in sooner, maybe you wouldve lived. If I cut you down faster instead of screaming and crying, you might not have been declred brain dead. Well our neighbor called 911 and the EMT's and cops came. I thought you were dead already. So while I was braless, and pantless (because it started off as a normal Saturday), there were about 5 paramedics with you in our bedroom. About 5 cops were asking me questions about what happened. Luckily our neighbor was there to help me speak because I was hysterical. Some dickhead cop even told me "you acting like this doesnt help him". Im sorry fuckhead, how am I not supposed to be hysterical after this? So turns out you were still alive so they had me go with them to the hospital. I contemplated in the ambulance how the fuck to tell your sister and parents. We just saw your sister about 3 weeks ago and we were all so happy.
You were hospitalized from 7-11 to 7-18. I called my best friend to meet me in the ER since she was the closest and made that dreadful call to your sister while I was waiting alone in the ER. That sucked. Then your mom called me and that sucked even more. The 3 of them flew in the next day on Sunday and we stayed with you everyday in the ICU during visiting hours from 12-8. You had an anoxic brain injury so we held onto hope that it wasnt so bad. But then your CT scan was bad, and the neurologists kept seeing barely any brain activity. We took turns seeing you in the ICU and everytime I came to see you, I died some more seeing you ventilated and if you flipped your eyelids, you could see there was no life there. By Thursday 7/16, you were declared brain dead 11 something AM (thats what your death certificate says) and by that night we decided as a family to make you an organ donor.

Friday 7/17 they did all the tests and told us that your going to save 5 lives because you were donating (with us allowing) your heart, lungs, kidney, pancreas and liver. YOur intestines went to medical science for medical advancement. Honey, you were a physically healthy 28 year old and now your saving minimum 5 peoples lives. So that Saturday 7-18 around 5:50PM, me, your parents and sister walked your bed from the ICU with the organ donor team of doctors to the surgery doors where we would forever say goodbye and where your heart would stop. That was the longest 3-5 min of my life. We were all crying and sobbing while your dad played Bob Dylan's Blowin in the Wind. Your mom and I took turns holding your hand and they stopped at the doors to say goodbye. We all had our moment. They let me take my mask off to give you one last kiss. It was on your forehead because your mouth was ventilated. We all hugged and cried and walked away honey while you went on to be a hero. We couldnt save you, but you saved at least 5 people. That night, we celebrated your life, drinking whisky, watching the simpsons and eating puerto rican food. They told us that your heart stopped that night at 9AM 7-18. We had you cremated and I have half your ashes. Your parents took the other half to your home until its safe to fly to give a proper send off with everyone who loved you there present.
Your coworkers were so devastated. Your show did a tribute at the end of the episode, and you were even going to work on Showtime's 'The Circus' this season covering this election. You were so excited for it! They did another dedication for you at the end of the episode because thats how loved and inspirational you were to people. I love you so much, I miss you. I dont know how I am living without you and what for now. You were the love of my life and I cant believe you checked out after a fight. I definately feel like we both acted strange that day and out of character. Im so sorry that the topic of our fight triggered whatever trauma in your past that you briefly discussed with me. I never thought you would do this. I feel like I am suffering now and deserve it.
we almost made it to 9 years honey. 7/31 is our anniversary and we had a trip planned for a cabin upstate to hike with our dog. I broke our lease which was supposed to end September and woulve marked 3 years of living together. It was so hard to walk away from our first and last home together. Besides that day in our bedroom, it was a mostly beauitful place of memories. It is now horror to me and Brooklyn is a place of sorrow for me now. I had to close my eyes while I was crying when my cousin and I drove through our neighborhood while coming back from packing. Seeing the Brooklyn museum, a place you were so excited to revisit after Covid, seeing the outdoor restaurants we had plan for the next week to visit, seeing the neighborohood we would walk through with our dog, its all so painful. Everytime I packed and slowly emptied out our apartment, my heart broke even more. on 8/23 I came with our dog to have a final fairwell and cried and kissed the doorknob where you killed yourself from. I had to walk away without you and my heart is so broken and I miss you and love you so much. Our relationship has been plagued with so much sickness and death but I got through with it with you. What am I supposed to do with this now and how without you? You were my rock. Man I miss you and I want to be with you wherever are.

I am having an existential crisis and feel like I need to make something of your passing. Engineering doesnt drive me anymore and I need to get your ideas out there and help the world like you wouldve wanted. Please visit me in my dreams :(

R.I.P. JGVR, I fucking love you and always will. I'm so sorry and hope we find each other one day.
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2020.09.02 15:39 Robert_de_Saint_Loup Why has our generation embraced online dating?

I was born in 1995 and back in the day there was this thing called the “personals” section of the newspaper. It was made for people who wanted to connect with a potential partner. A person would look at the personals and if they saw the information and picture of someone they liked, they would contact them. My aunt implored with tears her coworker at the time not to date a man in the personals section. It was considered shameful to do such things and the proper way was considered either an introduction to a mutual friend or go to particular spots such as the beach, gym, bar, etc... such was dating back in those days.
Online dating started becoming more popular when eHarmony and Match came out. But this was more for middle aged people and it was also a paid service. But a 22 year old in 2006 for example, wouldn’t go on Match or Eharmony.
Online dating for young adults didn’t really kick until after 2009 or so. And when OkCupid and Tinder got started, it gained a mass following of young adults and college students. Such was the attraction of Tinder at that time.
Today, due to society’s conditions, there is Hinge, Coffeemeetsbagle, Bumble, Happn, Tinder, OkCupid and a ton of other ones. But how did this happen?
Granted it’s predominantly common in large and medium cities. The people of the country, following the traditions of our ancestors, aren’t so quick to throw themselves into online dating and resort to more conventional forms of dating.
And our fellow millennial peers in the East are much more attuned with the conventional forms of dating. Same thing with the mediterranean nations and Latin America. I’m not saying it doesn’t exist over there, it’s just not as common with our peers as it is over here in the Western English nations, USA, Canada, UK.
In Latvia, our fellow millennials rejoice during the Jāņi and sing songs of summer and joy. They start a fire and all the civil servants of the city flock to the scene of merriment to join their community. So great is the attachment to the ancestors and the community.
Here, everybody is on dating apps sharing spongebob memes and talking about identity politics.
In Puerto Rico, the islanders aren’t as keen on online dating. Same thing with many of the people in other areas.
Why do we assume we are superior? We tech-obsessed young people. Why do we embrace online dating and suggest it for our friends when many of our peers don’t do this.
How did this happen?
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